Are you listening?
One of the simplest leadership truths - when you’re talking, you’re not listening.
It sounds obvious. But watch any tense meeting. Someone is formulating their response while the other person is still speaking. We call it discussion. It’s often just waiting to reply.
The cost is missed nuance, assumptions filling gaps, and solutions aimed at the wrong problem. Real listening requires restraint. It means letting someone finish, asking a follow-up instead of defending, and being willing to change your position.
The best leaders I’ve worked with didn’t dominate the room. They absorbed it.
If you’re always the one speaking, you’re probably the one learning the least.
What Do You Want To Be Remembered For?
What do you want to be remembered for? Not your title. Not your compensation. Not the size of the team you led. When people talk about you years from now, what will they say?
Will they say - “They got results.” “They were fair.” “They made me better.” “They showed up when it mattered.”
In the middle of deadlines, metrics, and growth targets, it’s easy to drift into performance mode - always chasing the next outcome. But legacy is built in the small moments. How you handled pressure. How you treated people when they struggled. Whether you gave credit or took it.
Careers are long. Reputations are longer. At some point, the scoreboard fades. Character doesn’t.
So if the work ended tomorrow - what would remain? And is that aligned with how you’re leading today?
Being Imperfect
Being imperfect as a leader is uncomfortable. You see the miss before anyone else does. You replay the conversation you could’ve handled better. You recognize the decision that should’ve been different.
Perfection is attractive in theory. In practice, it’s isolating. Imperfection is human. It means you don't always say it right. It means you don't always get it right. It means you don't always see it coming.
But here’s what I’ve know! Imperfect leaders who are honest build more trust
than “perfect” leaders who pretend. Owning your flaws doesn’t erode authority - it grounds it. People don’t need you to be flawless. They need you to be accountable. Consistent. Willing to grow.
Imperfection isn’t the problem. Avoiding reflection is. The goal isn’t to eliminate mistakes. It’s to become the kind of person who learns from them.
Leadership isn’t about being polished. It’s about being real and getting better anyway.
Are You Buying?
The fastest way to lose momentum is to keep shopping when you should be buying!
Shopping is entertainment. Buying is commitment. There’s a difference. Shopping is browsing. Comparing. Wondering if something better might be one more click away. It’s low risk and low commitment. Buying is clarity.
I’m a buyer. When I see something that fits the need, aligns with the long-term vision, and has the potential to scale with me - I move. I don’t keep shopping. I don’t look for incremental improvements just to feel busy.
Indecision is expensive. Second-guessing slows momentum. Constant comparison keeps you stuck.
The same applies in business. Whether it’s hiring a key leader, selecting a partner, implementing a system, or choosing a strategy - once the criteria are clear and the solution meets them, commit. Then make it work.
At some point, you stop shopping and start building. Are you shopping or are you buying?
Confidence, Not Arrogance
"I'm f'ing good at what I do!" And yet that statement is not how I choose to represent myself.
I’m not someone who markets myself loudly. I don’t come with a parade. I don’t need hype. I don’t announce my arrival. But I’ll say this plainly - I’m very good at what I do.
I’ve always been more of a silent assassin. Confident. Prepared. Comfortable letting the results speak.
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on that. At what point does strong confidence get mistaken for arrogance? And more importantly - have I ever crossed that line?
Here’s what I’ve come to believe:
Arrogance needs an audience. Confidence doesn’t.
Arrogance dismisses input. Confidence invites it.
Arrogance protects ego. Confidence protects standards.
I don’t need to be the loudest person in the room. But I also have never shrunk to make others comfortable. There’s a difference between knowing your value and needing everyone else to validate it.
I’m still reflective enough to check myself. Still open enough to learn. Still willing to admit that I'm human. But I'm also unapologetic when it comes to what I bring!
Quiet doesn’t mean unsure. Quiet means studying the landscape. It means looking at the pieces that are in play. It means understanding dynamics. And then like a silent assassin - executing the plan!
In the Absence of New Information
One of the hardest disciplines in leadership is making a decision in the absence of new information.
You’ve reviewed the data. You’ve asked the questions. You’ve pressure-tested the assumptions. And nothing new is coming. But the decision still needs to be made.
That’s the uncomfortable space where many leaders stall. They wait for clarity that isn’t arriving. They ask for "more analysis.” They delay in the name of thoroughness. At some point, additional information doesn’t increase certainty - it just delays action.
Leadership often comes down whether you can commit when you know you don’t know everything? Because progress rarely waits for perfect data. You decide. You communicate. You monitor. You adjust if needed.
Indecision has a cost. Momentum has value. The goal isn’t to be right every time. It’s to move the organization forward responsibly. Sometimes the bravest decision is simply deciding.
Discomfort Builds Leaders
There’s something powerful about the first time you do something you’ve never done before - lead the meeting, run the project, deliver the tough message, own the outcome.
I’m known for pushing people into those moments. Not recklessly or without support, but intentionally. Because growth doesn’t happen inside comfort zones.
I’ve asked team members to present before they felt ready. To take ownership earlier than expected. To step into leadership before they fully saw themselves that way.
And almost every time, I see the same thing - nerves, doubt, then capability.
The first time feels like exposure. The second time feels possible. The tenth time feels natural.
My job as a leader isn’t to keep people comfortable. It’s to expand what they believe they’re capable of. Most people don’t need protection from stretch.
They need someone who believes they can handle it.
Comfort builds stability. Discomfort builds leaders.
President’s Day
On Presidents’ Day, I’m reminded of a quote from Abraham Lincoln:
“Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.”
Leadership isn’t proven when things are easy - it’s revealed in how we handle responsibility. A good reminder that character always outlasts title.
Insurance and Legal
No one launches a startup because they’re excited about insurance policies and legal structure. But if ignore them - they will manage you.
Insurance and legal aren’t overhead - they’re operating infrastructure. In early-stage businesses, especially in operations-heavy environments, it’s easy to focus on revenue, growth, product, and customers. Until something goes wrong - a vendor dispute, an employee injury, a customer claim, a contract you signed too quickly, a shipment that is damaged, or a facility incident you never seen coming.
You don’t have a legal department down the hall or a risk team reviewing every clause. You are the escalation path.
Here’s what I’ve learned from operating in early and scaling environments:
- Understand your risk profile before you scale. General liability is not the same as product liability. Cargo insurance is not the same as warehouse legal liability. Directors & Officers coverage matters once you start raising capital.
Know what you actually need - not just what your broker suggested.
- Read every contract like you’ll defend it in court - indemnification clauses, personal guarantees, termination language, jurisdiction, insurance requirements. These aren’t boilerplate - they’re leverage points.
- Document everything - incidents, SOPs, training logs, safety procedures. If you ever need to defend your company, documentation becomes your strongest asset.
- Build relationships with your broker and attorney early. The worst time to meet them is during a claim.
- Don’t let compliance stall growth - but don’t let growth outrun compliance. That tension is real. Managing it is part of leadership.
In early-stage companies, risk management feels invisible when it’s working well. But it’s one of the clearest signals of operational maturity. Growth is exciting. Profit is validating. Protection is foundational.
If you’ve operated in a startup, you know that you just don't build the business. You build the guardrails that keep in standing.
My Superpower
If I had to name my professional superpower, it wouldn’t be strategy. It wouldn’t be operational turnaround. It wouldn't be the ability to see upstream and downstream. It would be this - I’m relatable.
I can sit in a boardroom at 9:00 a.m. discussing EBITDA and be on the warehouse floor at 9:20 a.m. debating the correct way to tape a box and at 9:40 a.m. negotiating a packaging contract - without needing a costume change or a firmware update.
Somewhere along the way I realized something important - people don’t care how impressive you are. They care whether you’re human.
Humor is my cheat code. It’s hard to create hierarchy when you’ve just said,
“Give me a second - I built that model and even I don’t understand it.” Or when you admit you once spent ten minutes confidently explaining the wrong KPI - while everyone politely nodded. I apologize again if you had to sit through those ten minutes (especially if it was on multiple occasions - dohhhh!).
Relatability disarms rooms. Ops vs. Sales? Usually just two groups convinced the other one doesn’t get it. Corporate vs. Floor? Mostly a translation issue - tied together with a complaint about not wearing proper footwear. Founder vs. Team? Half the time it’s just adrenaline meeting reality.
I’ve found that if you laugh at yourself first, speak plainly, admit when you’re wrong, and avoid acting like the smartest person in the room - you can walk into almost any environment and lower the temperature.
Ego hates humor. Trust loves it. And here’s the thing - you don’t lose authority by being relatable. You gain it. Because the person who can deliver a tough message and still be the one people want to sit next to at lunch - that’s influence.
No cape. Just humility, timing, and occasionally a well-placed joke.
Benchmark Outside The Industry
One of the best ways to improve a business - whether in supply chain, hospitality, service, retail, etc?
Stop only studying your industry. Some of the most valuable ideas I’ve implemented didn’t come from logistics conferences or operations textbooks. They came from other industries.
Healthcare taught me about standardized checklists, error-proofing and triaging challenges. Hospitality taught me about customer experience, handoffs, and brand loyalty. Manufacturing taught me about visual controls, and the small components (parts) that go into the larger finished good (result). Technology taught me about agile iteration and debugging. Sports taught me about game day execution and building teams.
When you benchmark outside your lane, you stop recycling the same ideas everyone else is using.
Supply chain isn’t isolated. It’s a system of systems. So why would we only borrow from ourselves?
Some of the strongest operators I know are curious about everything:
How airlines board planes
How restaurants manage peak demand
How software teams deploy updates
How urban planners design cities
The question isn’t, “Does this look like insert industry?” The question is, “What principle is working here?” Because principles travel well - visibility, accountability, flow, feedback loops, and execution changes. The concept often translates.
If you want better results, widen the lens. Innovation rarely comes from staring harder at the same problem.
Resourcefulness and Resilience
Supply Chain has given me something that I had never expected - story after story that even the best writers in Hollywood couldn't dream up. One of my favorite stories ties to resourcefulness and resilience - neither of which are built in perfect conditions. They’re built when things go wrong and you don’t have the luxury of waiting for someone else to fix it.
Years ago, when I owned a fulfillment business in Western New York, we had just replaced the roof on our warehouse. End of winter. Snow piled high. What I didn’t know was that the roofers failed to seal a two-inch seam. When the sun came out and the snow started to melt, that tiny seam turned into a waterfall stretching more than a hundred feet inside the warehouse. And to up the stakes - we had a prospective client visiting within days.
For nearly two months, it sounded like it was raining indoors. I could have shut down. I could have panicked. I could have blamed the contractor and waited. Instead, I got resourceful.
I gathered the team and we built a water capture system out of sheets of plastic - stretching fifteen feet wide and spanning a little over one hundred feet. We funneled the water into trash cans. We daisy-chained those trash cans together with sump pumps. Pump by pump, we pushed the water across the warehouse and out to the docks - draining it into the truck court.
It wasn’t pretty. It wasn’t ideal. But orders kept shipping.
That season taught me something I’ve never forgotten. Resilience isn’t loud - it’s practical. It’s looking at a waterfall in your warehouse and saying, “Alright. Let’s build something.”
Adversity doesn’t ask if you’re ready. It just shows up. Resourcefulness is deciding you’ll keep operating anyway.
As for that prospective client - we signed him! He was impressed by our ability to overcome adversity and for creating a relaxing warehouse environment - complete with a water feature.
Time on the floor
One of the most important things a leader can do is spend time on warehouse floors, cutting room floors, and factory floors. Not from a distance. Not through reports. But in person.
That’s where progress becomes visible. That where work actually flows. Where problems are really solved. Where team members speak the reality up close and personal.
I’ve been at companies where executives avoided the floor. Avoided the noise, the cold, the heat, the mess, and avoided the people. And it always showed. Because culture doesn’t live in boardrooms. It lives where hands touch product and decisions meet reality.
If you want to understand an operation, go where orders are picked, product is cut, and where assemblies come together. Go where mistakes are felt immediately. Go where people feel the stress of upstream decisions made without their input.
The floor tells you the "why". You don’t understand a supply chain - or its culture - until you’ve stood in the middle of it and listened. Leadership shows up best when it's real - not just slide decks.
Travel as a Teacher
Sitting in an airport terminal and people watching has me reminiscing to a trip with fellow executives from a past position - nine cities in ten days.
I was thinking about how travel teaches you more about people than most meetings ever will. You see how they react when plans change - when flights are delayed - when schedules tighten and pressure creeps in.
Some people get louder. Some shut down. Some stay steady. You learn who treats service workers with respect, who can adapt without drama, and who stays calm when control disappears.
You also learn a lot about teams on the road. The ones who communicate clearly don’t scramble. The ones who trust each other don’t panic. The ones with weak alignment feel it immediately.
Travel strips away polish. There’s no time for rehearsed answers or perfect conditions. What’s left is character.
Over time, you stop dreading the logistics and start paying attention to the signals. Because how someone travels often mirrors how they lead, how they partner, and how they handle pressure at work.
If you want to understand people quickly, don’t just watch them in meetings.
Watch them when the plan changes and the gate gets moved.
Work As Purpose
Work gets a bad reputation. We’re told it’s just a paycheck. Something to endure so real life can happen later. But for a lot of people, work becomes something else entirely - it's purpose.
Not because of titles or promotions (or the company pizza party 🙃 ) but because work is where problems get solved, people get helped, chaos gets turned into something usable.
Purpose shows up when you know that what you did today mattered to someone other than yourself. When your effort made a process better, a team stronger, a customer’s day easier, a community better.
That doesn’t mean work should consume your identity. And it doesn’t mean you owe your life to your job. It means contribution matters. Most people don’t want to be busy. They want to be useful.
When leaders connect work to meaning - when people can see the why behind the effort - motivation stops being something you have to manufacture.
Purpose isn’t always found in passion projects or big missions. Sometimes it’s found in doing necessary work, well, for others who depend on it. That’s not just work. That’s meaning earned, one day at a time.
Life Time Value (LTV)
Customer experience isn’t a soft metric. It’s a financial one.
Every interaction - on-time delivery, packaging quality, response speed, issue resolution - quietly compounds into lifetime value. Customers don’t usually leave because of one big failure. They leave because of small frustrations that pile up - missed promise here, slow response there, an issue that felt harder than it should have been.
Great customer experience does the opposite. It builds trust. It reduces friction. It makes staying easier than leaving. And when customers stay -
acquisition costs drop, order frequency increases, price sensitivity decreases. Lifetime value grows - not because you put my effort into selling but because you put more effort into serving.
The companies that win long-term ask, “How does this moment feel to the customer?”
The companies that fail are the ones that live in silos. Sales is sales, marketing is marketing, customer service is customer service, operations is operations, and so on. But Experience isn't a department. It's the north star that ties it all together. It’s the output of every process working (or not working) together.
If you want higher LTV, start where customers actually live - their experience. From first sight of the brand in marketing to delivery of the product or service to post transaction follow up and problem resolution. All of it ties to LTV. All of it is what separates mediocrity from world class.
Compounding Benefits
One of the best uses of time is solving a problem once that pays you back forever - compounding benefits.
It’s the same idea as compounding interest. A small improvement made today - when applied every day after - quietly outperforms big, flashy efforts that do not stick.
Things like: fixing a broken handoff instead of managing around it or cleaning up master data instead of reconciling reports forever or training someone properly instead of answering the same question for the hundredth time.
At first, the return feels small - not worth the effort. But then errors stop repeating, decisions get faster, teams stop firefighting. And the payoff starts to compound.
Most organizations are full of “interest payments” - time, money, and energy spent managing problems that should have been fixed years ago.
Good operators look for root-cause solutions that create permanent lift. The work is rarely exciting. It often goes unnoticed. But months later, when things feel easier and no one can quite explain why - that's compounding at work.
Solve the right problem once. Collect the dividends forever.
I Just Work Here
We have all heard it. Someone says: “I just work here.”
It sounds harmless. A throwaway line. A little humor to soften frustration. But that phrase tells a story and is an warning.
Sometimes it means - I've stopped trying to influence outcomes - I don’t feel ownership anymore. Decisions are happening to me, not with me.
I’ve heard it on shop floors, in warehouses, in offices, and in conference rooms after one too many changes that didn’t make sense. I've heard it from Executives, from managers, supervisors, team members, and from contractors.
The dangerous part isn’t the joke. It’s the resignation behind it. When people start saying “I just work here,” accountability erodes. Pride fades. And disengagement quietly takes root.
Leaders should pay attention to that phrase. It’s often a signal - one of the first obvious ones - not of laziness - but of people who once cared and no longer feel heard.
The best teams don’t eliminate frustration. They create ownership. The goal isn’t to have people who just work here. It’s to have people who feel like what they do actually matters.
Words reveal culture. Listen closely.
The Places You’ll Go
Supply chain will take you places you never expected to go.
Physically - warehouses at dawn - factories in the middle of nowhere - ports, plants, cold rooms, back offices, shop floors.
But more importantly, mentally and professionally. It will put you in rooms where decisions are made with incomplete information, millions of dollars hinge on a spreadsheet cell, and where you are asked to solve problems no one else wants. It will stretch you humble you - force you to learn fast or fall behind.
You’ll find yourself translating chaos into plans, turning constraints into tradeoffs, and explaining bad news calmly - over and over.
Supply chain teaches you how the world actually works - not the theory - not the slide deck. But the real, messy, interconnected version.
And if you stick with it long enough, it takes you inward too. You learn patience - you learn accountability - you learn that leadership isn't loud - it's steady.
The places supply chain takes you aren’t always glamorous. But they are meaningful. And once you’ve seen how things truly move - you never look at the world the same way again.
Control Totals
A few years ago while working for a 3PL - I sat in a regular touch base with a client. I heard their frustration on a kitting project. One each of three different SKU's were being placed into a carton, the box sealed, and labeled as a new SKU. The customer voiced frustration that the finished SKU had variances - some with two items, some with multiple of the same item.
I drove to the facility to review the process. Cartons of the component SKU's were spread across the receiving dock (the area they were using for the project). After identifying an isolated space - we reset the process. And in doing so I introduced them to control totals.
Control totals aren’t exciting. They don’t get credit when a project goes well. But in kitting and assembly projects, they’re the difference between confidence and chaos.
A control total is simple:
If you need 100 units of the finished product - and if that finished product contains one each of three different SKU's - you pull 100 of SKU 1, 100 of SKU 2, 100 of SKU 3, 100 cartons that will be used for the finished SKU, and 100 labels. You do not overflow the kitting area with anything more than what you are using. As you complete your project - if there's a variance in either finished product or the components - there's a problem.
When control totals are missing, teams end up chasing shortages they cannot explain, rebuilding kits they already built, or arguing whose numbers are right.
With control totals in place, you gain immediate visibility into loss, scrap, or mis-picks. There is clear accountability across shifts, lines, or vendors. Root cause analysis is fast.
Control totals force discipline at every handoff:
Receiving → staging → assembly → finished goods.
And they matter even more when volumes are high, timelines are tight, or labor is temporary. Kitting feels simple. Until it isn’t.
If you’ve ever finished an assembly run and thought, “We’re short … but no one knows why,” you already know how valuable this boring little control really is.